How to celebrate Dia de los Muertos with kids

Just as Mexicans celebrate life with colour and fanfare, so do they honour and commemorate death. Mexico’s Día de Muertos (Day of the Dead) is one of the country’s most popular festivals that is now celebrated around the world.

Mexico is filled with fun and fiestas at the best of times. In the weeks leading up to Día de los Muertos, however, the country literally explodes with colour.

Bright orange Mexican Marigolds are everywhere along with colourful Catrinas, sugar skulls iced in blues and pinks and yellows, and intricate papel picado (tissue paper cutouts) hang in shop windows and homes.

At midnight on October 31, Mexico’s most colourful, and most famous, festival officially starts. El Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead Festival) is an annual celebration held to honour and remember those who have died. It’s a very vibrant festival, as well as being very moving, a celebration of life that we could all learn something from.

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“Follow me, you need to see something special. All the world is made of stories and all of those stories are right here in The Book of Life. But the greatest story begins on the Day of the Dead, a day when spirits pass between worlds and anything can happen.” –

Mary Beth the teacher in The Book of Life

Celebrating the Day of the Dead for kids

For kids, this is a very fun event as well as an important one. It’s a way for them to learn about death and to understand that it can be something to be celebrated rather than feared. There are lots of ways that you can introduce your children to the Day of the Dead celebration; the end of this post has some of our favourite Day of the Dead activities.

Despite its growing popularity, this is a Mexican holiday with deeply rooted traditions that go back to pre-Hispanic times. During this holiday, the popular belief is that the deceased have permission to visit friends and relatives on earth and once again enjoy that which they did in life.

Despite falling on the dates when Halloween is celebrated, the Day of the Dead festivities are not Halloween celebrations.

When the Spanish conquistadoras arrived and found people celebrating death they quickly put an end to what they saw as a pagan ritual.

Gradually, however, these traditional beliefs and customs were incorporated into the Catholic calendar. Previously the festival had been celebrated for a month in the summer but it was later moved to the end of October to coincide with the Roman Catholic festival of “Allhallowtide”.

Today the festival coincides with All Saints Day and All Souls’ Day.

The festival officially starts at midnight on October 31st, although family members are often preparing in the weeks leading up to this, creating ofrendas (altars) in their homes.

In most regions, November 1st is to honour children and infants and November 2nd is to remember deceased adults. Over the course of the holiday, families will visit cemeteries to decorate the graves and tombs of their relatives.

Today Dia de Muertos los Muertos continues to be celebrated throughout Mexico, as well as other parts of Latin America. Each state has their customs – and the traditions remain particularly authentic in the small towns and villages – but the common theme is one of honour and remembrance for those who have died.

Day of the dead traditions

Although customs vary region by region – and in different Latin American countries – there are various traditions and symbols that are commonplace throughout the country.

Ofrenda (altars)

Altars are assembled at home, in cemeteries and outside, in memory of a relative, or relatives, who have died. Traditionally these Dia de los muertos altar are decorated with flowers, photos of the deceased, brightly coloured papel picado (delicate, colourful paper cut outs) and favorite foods, you may even spot a bottle of tequlia or two.

Much like other ancient civilisations, early Mexicans buried their dead with the deceased’s personal possessions as well as things that might help them in their next life. As such, miniature sculptures of favourite foods or small ceramic sculptures of hobbies that the deceased enjoyed in life might also be placed on the ofrenda.

Ofrendas can be elaborate but they can also be a very simple way of remembering someone who has passed.

La Catrina

Possibly the most identifiable symbol of Día de Muertos is La Catrina, the elegantly attired female skeleton with her extravagantly plumed hat. She was ‘born’ in the early 1900s as a cartoon designed to poke fun at Mexico’s wealthy classes.

La Catrina was later painted into a mural by Diego Rivera, one of Mexico’s most famous artists. She later became a figure of Mexican culture representing death.

Cempasuchils

Known as flores de muertos or Mexican marigolds, these bright orange flowers can be seen for sale everywhere in the run up to the festival.

Their colour is thought to represent the colour and light of the Sun. Aztecs believed that the Sun would guide dead souls towards the right path. They are used in abundance in churches, cemeteries and homes.

Traditionally, families placed flower petals and candles along the path leading from the cemetery to home. This is so that the departed souls could find their way back to Earth.

Pan de Muertos

Food plays an important part in the festival and families place the ‘bread of the dead’ – a sweet, round bread decorated with bone-shaped dough and sugar with ‘bones’ – on the altar so that the spirits have something to eat after their long journey home. The bread itself is flavoured with orange and anise.

Calaveras

In pre-Hispanic times calaveras (skulls) were often kept as trophies and displayed during rituals to symbolise death and rebirth.

Traditionally, sugar skulls – made by carefully pouring sugar solution into moulds before decorating with coloured icing – are also placed on ofrendas. They can sometimes be eaten but their main purpose is to adorn the altars. Today, chocolate skulls are also popular and these can definitely be eaten!

Nowadays, you’ll often see Halloween influences alongside traditional Día de Muertos symbols – a pumpkin here or there or a piñata in the shape of a witch – but this is still a very important holiday for most people in Mexico.

Day of the Dead Activities with kids

There are lots of ways to involve your children in activities to remember those who may have passed.

Watch The Book of Life and Coco

These two excellent animated movies, The Book of Life and Coco, are a wonderful way to learn more about the traditions of Dia de los Muertos.

Released in 2014, The Book of Life tells the tale of two men in love with the same woman. Things get complicated when La Muerte, Queen of the Land of the Remembered and Xibalba, the dark ruler of the Land of the Forgotten, notice the battle between the two suitors and place a bet on who will win. Xibalba doesn’t play fair, however, and consequently sends one of the suitors, Manolo, on a journey into the underworld.

Coco was released in 2017 by Walt Disney Pictures and tells the charming tale of the young boy, Miguel, who dreams of becoming a musician despite his family’s generations-old ban on music. When he finds himself in the Land of the Dead he embarks on a journey to discover the real story behind his family’s history.

Colour a Calavera

Calaveras (skulls) are one of the most famous symbols of the Day of the Dead. Decorative sugar skulls, topped with coloured icing, can be seen everywhere in the lead up to the holiday. But rather than being scary, these are colourful and happy! Download free printables here.

Bake Pan de Muertos

Food plays an incredibly important part over the festival and one of the most popular foods is pan de muertos, ‘bread of the dead’. This is a sweet bread flavoured with orange and anise that is covered in sugar. ‘Bone’ shapes cross the dough. It’s said that the dead partake of the spirit of the food, while the living enjoy the physical treats at the cemetery.

This video tutorial by Presley’s Pantry caught our eye! You can also get her recipe on her blog.

Make Tissue Marigolds

Cempasuchils, otherwise known as flores de muertos or Mexican Marigolds can be seen literally everywhere in Mexico throughout the month of October. Their colour is thought to represent the colour and light of the Sun that Aztecs believed would guide dead souls along the right path.

Colour Papier Mache Skulls

If you can find papier mache skulls that are ready to paint then draw decorating inspiration from this blog post at Kids World Citizen. If not, then this tutorial will take you through the (very lengthy!) process. Perfect if you’re looking to keep the kids busy for a few hours or more!

Build an Ofrenda

Ofrendas, or altars, play a principle part in Day of the Dead celebrations. Families will create an ofrenda in their homes in memory of their loved ones. Each ofrenda is different and personal but common elements include cempasuchils, photos of the deceased, brightly coloured papel picado (delicate paper cut outs) and favourite foods of their loved ones. Miniature ceramic figures of food or hobbies that the dead might have enjoyed are placed on the altar as well.

Places to experience Día de Muertos in Mexico

Every state and region celebrates the holiday differently but no matter where you travel in Mexico, you will find Day of the Dead celebrations. The following are just some of the more famous Day of the Dead destinations in Mexico. Note that some of these places get very busy so they may not be suitable for younger children.

Mexico City

Ever since James Bond witnessed hundreds of catrinas in El Zocalo in the opening scene of Spectre, the heart of Mexico City has enjoyed a cinematic parade for Día de Muertos.

Hundreds of participants take place every year, starting at the Angel of Independence and ending in the Centro Historico. Expect enormous puppet skeletons, mask-wearing dancers and elaborately decorated catrinas.

Other locations in the capital that are famous for their Day of the Dead celebrations include San Andrés Mixquic and Xochimilco.

San Andrés Mixquic, in the south of the city, has strong indigenous roots and every year graves are decorated with thousands of marigolds and hundreds of candles.

Xochimilco, again in the south, puts on a special night-time Day of the Dead excursions on a trajinera. Learn the spooky legend of La Llorona as you float along the waterways.

Pátzcuaro

The Island of Janitzio in Lake Pátzcuaro, in the state of Michoacan, is home to one of Mexico’s most famous Dia de los Muertos celebrations. The indigenous Purepecha people perform elaborate rituals in the local cemetery throughout the night. Pátzcuaro can be reached on a weekend trip from Mexico City.

Xico

One of Mexico’s pueblos magicos (magical towns), Xico, in the state of Veracruz, is famous for its colourful Day of the Dead celebrations, including an elaborate flower petal carpet along the road leading to the graveyard.

Oaxaca

Dia de los Muertos is one of the biggest celebrations of the year in Oaxaca. In addition to elaborate altars, tapetes de arena (sand tapestries) are common – detailed pictures made out of sand in honour of the person who has died.

Every year there is a giant tapete de arena outside the Museo del Palacio. One of the main cemeteries is the Panteon General (the Oaxaca General Cemetery), also known as the Panteon San Miguel.

Puerto Vallarta

Although not one of the most popular places to witness Dia de los Muertos, the beachside town of Puerto Vallarta is a fun place to witness the festivities with kids. Expect giant ofrendas, a colourful parade and gangly skeletons on stilts, towering above the crowds. If plan to stay at the beach then take a look at CasaGo, that have a great selection of houses and apartments that work well for families.